Seen but not heard, they must

I grew up in a culture where children were supposed to be seen but not heard. I was born & raised in Zimbabwe. In Southern Africa. That was not unusual but the usual, emulated and expected. Seen but, not heard-Around Continue reading Seen but not heard, they must

Be careful what you say to your children. Words kill, words give life


Raising children is an art. Therefore, be cautious, because words kill, and words give life. Proverbs 18:21 Since the tongue has power The art has to be learned and practiced thus practice speaking wisely to your children even if you Continue reading Be careful what you say to your children. Words kill, words give life

Your facial expressions sell you out


    Facial expressions sell you out Facial expressions do sell out for real You girl, are scheming something: you’re definitely have a plot on your mind and the method, in place Sneaky, sneaky, you Take note: I’ll find out, Continue reading Your facial expressions sell you out

Parenting is a privilege; children are a heritage from the Lord


Enjoy time with your kids,parenting is an honor

  Parenting is a great privilege, first and for all and a great opportunity. For not everybody has had the opportunity to have children. Some are praying and fasting for children and going through several treatments, to have the joy of Continue reading Parenting is a privilege; children are a heritage from the Lord

A mother’s pleasant words are like honey to the child’s tongue


Pleasant Words

Mothe's pleasant words is like honey
Girl enjoying her mother’s pleasant words

A mother’s pleasant words are like honey, to the child’s tongue. This is why  I wrote blessing notes to our daughters, beginning of the year. I am encouraging all mothers or any woman who is dealing with children to bless them/speak good of them. Speak those good things we wish for their lives. Ladies, we are nurturers. There is something in us women, which God has entrusted us with. Let’s not slacken. The kids need us. Even our men need us.

God blessed my husband and me with two daughters. The first one is 25 at this time of writing. She is a very responsible young woman. The second one is about 23 and is a hard worker.


Blessing with pleasant words

We love to speak and write positive statements. Biblical truth and words of encouragement to them. Picking one or two things they are good at and reinforce. For, words of power. It’s either we build or we destroy by words.  If they are doing something contrary to what we expect, we tell them, they can do better. This has opened a way for the girls, to come to me for advice, especially when it’s girl issues. We have a relationship of trust, and we thank God for it. We are not perfect by any means. But are still learning.

Children need to hear their parents talk good about them, encourage them. That does well to their souls. And brings life to their beings and future. Who better to do that than the parent. In other words, it’s called blessing your children.

This one was for our first daughter.

  Here we go:

Blessings to a daughter
Blessings for the year

Happy new year Salome Nyasha (Grace)

Grateful to God, for keeping you

He is your Keeper


And Guide

May 2017 bring you joy,
 and gladness
I speak great strides in your life;

 and Personally


You are a victor

A  responsible young lady.

You are beautiful



And kind

Love you lots

Mommy dearest

Salome  loved and appreciated this: INDEED it was like honey on her tongue..

Assurance of Salvation


  Assurance of Salvation-After getting born again /receive-salvation/How to Receive salvation But as many as received Him,to them  He gave the right to become children  of God,even to those who believe in His name.(John 1:12) The next verse goes on to Continue reading Assurance of Salvation

Happy father’s day to my hubby & father of our babies!

Fathers Fathers are important Fatherhood comes in different way: biological,adoptive and spiritual Happy Father’s day to you, my love! You are a great daddy, to the girls. By loving them with unconditional love. You train them, for being responsible adults. And you lead by Continue reading Happy father’s day to my hubby & father of our babies!