Sexy, what is it? does it matter? to who? So what,then?


Sexy basically means attractive/appealing

correct me if I am wrong :)

Whatever they truly mean by sexy

it’s beyond me

for it’s really become like a disease

a contagious one for that matter.

a wound that’s developed gangrene

thereby infectious

also smelly

plus unsightly

thereby needs quick attention

Sexy- and sexualizing everything

what’s become of us?

for instance, we talk about sexy food

and house

plus sexy car

ultimately   our youth, especially girls are so hung up on the same mode of thinking

it’s now a culture

no wonder at times our girls get into yo-yo dieting

and eating disorders

then end up in trouble healthy wise

this thing is everywhere

magazines, books, social media, etc

those selling weight loss products are taking advantage of this same thought process

If they are trying to mess our girls outside the home,

      at least let them get safe at home

my daughter says she hates it when people comment on her weight gain

as if that’s who she is

she is actually a very confident young woman

who does not want to be tossed around by everybody’s opinion

for my daughter  is not her weight

since there is more to her than the numbers on the scale

Parents crying foul

parents are crying foul

for the same thing they have created

because we forget words are powerful

for  they create

we have spoken negative words on our children

by telling them they are too fat

and nagging them about losing weight.

then, at times we add salt to the wound,

especially to the one who struggles with body image/puberty-years-struggles/

….by even comparing the body shapes, sizes of our daughters

…..forgetting everybody is attractive in their own way

…to different people

…..does it matter really, if  everybody  thinks and says you are attractive

……are you gonna marry everybody in the universe

……it’s like we are really giving somebody power over how we should feel

for its just vanity…….

Fear of getting old

We also have a youth-obsessed culture

for instance, people have the fear of getting old

so, they want to look forever young.

firstly their beauty

secondly, attractiveness

thirdly, just the overall look

it’s as if getting old is a curse

yet it’s a blessing

of having been on earth for a while

and obtained life experiences,

and relationships

hence gained some wisdom as the years go by.

About Mavis Chuma

I love Jesus. I love life. I love people. My life is hid in Christ in God. I belong to God & am seated in heavenly places with Jesus Christ. As Jesus is in heaven so am I in the world. So I am more than a conqueror in Christ Jesus. I am a winner.

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