Sexy, what is it? does it matter? to who? So what,then?


Sexy, basically means attractive/appealing

correct me if I am wrong :)

Whatever they truly mean by sexy

it’s beyond me

it’s really become like a disease

a contagious one

a wound that’s developed gangrene

thereby infectious



and needs quick attention

Sexualising everything

whats become

we talk about sexy food

… house


and now our youth

especially girls are so hung up on the same mode of thinking

it’s now a culture

no wonder at times our girls get into yo-yo dieting

and eating disorders

and end up in trouble healthy wise

this thing is everywhere

magazines, books, social media etc

those selling weight loss products are taking advantage of this same thought process

If they are trying to mess our girls outside the home,

      at least let them get safe at home

my daughter says she hates it when people comment on her weight gain

as if that’s who she is

she is actually a very confident young woman

who does not want to be tossed around by everybody’s opinion

as a mother, that I feel really good about it

she is not her weight

there is more to the girl than the numbers on the scale

parents are crying foul

for the same thing they have created

we forget words are powerful

they create

we have spoken negative words on our children

telling them they are too fat

and nagging them about losing weight

at times we add salt to the wound,

especially to the one who struggles with body image/puberty-years-struggles/

….by even comparing the body shapes, sizes of our daughters

…..forgetting everybody is attractive in their own way

…to different people

…..does it matter really, if  everybody  thinks and says you are attractive

……are you gonna marry everybody in the universe

……it’s like we are really giving somebody power over how we should feel

for its just vanity…….

About Mavis Chuma

I love Jesus. I love life. I love people. My life is hid in Christ in God. I belong to God & am seated in heavenly places with Jesus Christ. As Jesus is in heaven so am I in the world. So I am more than a conqueror in Christ Jesus. I am a winner.

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