I’m in too deep ,hands,feet,everything,no turning back,it’s dangerous

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Deep In…

Deep
I’m in too deep

First and foremost, Deep in, I am:

hands, feet and everything.

Secondly, No turning back since it’s dangerous

I ‘m all in

So, I can’t NOT worship God

Because He Is my sustenance

Additionally, my sanity

my provision

That’s why  I got to keep on going

   Forward is the Way

I will keep on swimming deeper

Deeper into Him

Into the waters deeper

Into the waters of His Word, I will dive in

I want the Word to continue washing me

    It’s do or die

I want to continue drinking from the Living Waters,

because they are refreshing,

since they revitalize my spirit

due to their giving me peace

joy and liberty.

I want to continue drinking from the well,

the well that never runs dry.

No turning back

It’s do or die

And it’s gonna be DO

Parenting is a privilege,for children are a heritage from the Lord

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Enjoy time with your kids,parenting is an honor

  Parenting as a privilege Parenting is a great privilege first of allSec and a great opportunity. For not everybody has had the opportunity to have children. Some are praying and fasting for children and going through several treatments, in Continue reading Parenting is a privilege,for children are a heritage from the Lord

One, true God,none can compare to Him

One, true God/Father of lights

Introduction-One,True God First of all, I am  going to explain, that the God  of the Bible, is the only One, True God. The  One God, who manifests Himself in three.God the Father, God the Son, God the Holy Spirit. (The Continue reading One, true God,none can compare to Him

Hubby & i singing unto the Lord in Worship

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This song was originally sung by Pastor Erasmus Mutambira of Zimbabwe.And it has blessed many.

 

   Singing for and to the Lord

Singing unto the Lord

Worshiping together with hubby

unto  our God, the Alpha and Omega.

Hubby  mostly plays the lead guitar &  I do sing

At times he plays the bass or drums

We have found solace in worship

For God is the beginning

and the end

He was there from the beginning and will be at the end

Creator of heavens and earth

The same yesterday, today and forever

The Author/Founder/Pioneer  and finisher  of our Faith

 

The Great I am

The self existent God

Creator of the heavens and the earth

In Him we live

move

and have our being

 

Worship

stirs our spirits

towards the Lord

edifies

comforts

fulfills

calms our ravenous emotions

and unifies us as a couple,

and with the Lord.

 

Just turned 16,yay! You are wise,walk likewise

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Walk wise

Dedicated to those beautiful girls, who have just turned 16, and want to walk wise You have turned 16, Yay! you are wise, walk likewise The World needs wise people like you. Wish you the very best Get your driver’s Continue reading Just turned 16,yay! You are wise,walk likewise

A mother’s pleasant words are like honey to the child’s tongue

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Pleasant Words

Mothe's pleasant words is like honey
Girl enjoying her mother’s pleasant words

A mother’s pleasant words are like honey to the child’s tongue,this is why i wrote blessing notes to our daughters beginning of the year. I am encouraging all mothers or any woman who is dealing with children to bless them/speak good of them.Speak those good things we wish for their lives.Ladies,we are nurturers.There is something in us women ,which God has entrusted us with.Lets not slacken.The kids need us.Even our man need us.

God blessed my husband and i with two daughters. The first one is 25  is  a very responsible young woman. The second one is about 23 and is a hard worker.

We love to speak and write positive statements, Biblical truth and words of encouragements to them.We pick one or two things they are good at,and reinforce.We don’t lie.If they are doing something contrary to what we expect,we tell them ,they can do better.This has opened a way for the girls to come to me for advice especially when it’s girl issues.We have a relationship of Trust,and we thank God for it.We are not perfect by any means.We are still learning.

Children need to hear their parents talk good of them, encourage them,  ’cause it does good to their souls. That brings life to their beings and future. Who better to do that than the parent. In other words it’s called blessing your children.

This one was for our first daughter. The other one coming soon.

A mother’s pleasant words as honey

  Here we go:

Blessings to a daughter
Blessings for the year

Happy new year Salome Nyasha (Grace)

Thanks be to God, for keeping you

He is your Keeper

Safety

And Guide

May 2017 bring you joy,
 peace  
 and gladness
I speak great strides in your life;

 Academically
 Professionally
 and Personally

 

You are a victor

A young woman, that is very responsible

You are beautiful

Confident

Smart

And kind

Love you lots

Mommy dearest

Salome  loved and appreciated this:INDEED it was like honey on her tongue..http://superiordomain.net/parenting-children-heritage-lord/

My struggles during puberty years,were torturous,lonesome and confusing

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Puberty years struggles-Background

 

Puberty years struggles
A girl struggling with low self-image

Puberty years struggles that I experienced were lonesome and confusing. I  felt uncomfortable having my body shape and alignment change. Sorry for too much info. I got to do this so that my message will be clear.

My mom passed when I was 12, http://superiordomain.net/astounding-illness/ and that left me with some insecurities. I  had elder sisters  I could ask about some of the girls’ stuff. I  actually lived with one of them but could not bring myself up to say anything. Because then, I was very shy when it comes to body issues and didn’t want to talk about.

What was it about these puberty years struggles?

My menses started at 13, and did not want anybody at home to know.Since  I was very uncomfortable about it. And  shy too. Hence that made it difficult for me to have access to the right sanitary pads. I also started developing breasts, and hips. When it came to hips that tortured me. Being an hour-glass girl after my mom of course, I would try to hide under sweaters. The boys added salt to the wound ’cause they would check  me out. I did not want to wear a bra…In my mind I thought if  I would ignore the inevitable, the features would just go away. Pathetic me. I really thought I looked older and bigger than my peers.Them puberty years struggles were really twisting my mind.

At school, I did not like to change into a swimming costume. Hence feeling like the odd one out, to my self and others. Leaving me feeling like I was abnormal.

Anybody like me, out there? or I was just plain weird.

The mirror and camera have become an obsession today

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It seems there are other issues or just the same but wearing different faces. Through reading around and talking to young girls,I figured the following. Some girls think they are not skinny enough, pretty enough even light enough.  Don’t have a big enough burst or think their burst is too small.  It could be about their legs( they are too skinny or too thick). Those with acne most of the  times struggle ’cause they try all sorts of remedies to no avail. Comparison in clothing is also a big one. How fashionable someone is and how much of a big wardrobe is at one’s disposal.

I want to fit in. I want to look cool. l want to look like the rest of them are also major outcries.

Sometimes there is comparison among siblings, which is not healthy for the family love and unit. It’s of utmost importance for parents  to know how to affirm their girls without comparison. Somebody  said  ‘the selfie issue’ is leading most of the younger girls into depression. Because of comparison and trying to keep up. I can’t remember who said it, but I believe their observation is  right.

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Questions like the ones below are  their torment and torture

How do I measure up?

What do other girls think about me?

Do boys think I am attractive?

Do they think I am cool?

What should we do about girls undergoing puberty years

    We really need to be on the lookout for any issues. And listen to them plus attend to any of their struggles. To affirm, encourage and motivate our young girls to accept their  looks. They need to know that everybody is beautiful but we are different in shape and bone structures. And if they are overweight, carefully  talk to them about it. Because usually when a girl is overweight, they are already beating themselves up about it. As parents, teachers or older women, we can teach them to clean themselves up. And enhance their beauty without going overboard.

Girls desperately need the right kind of validation.